i'm singleand loving it!, so does that make me commitment-phobic?
annoyingly and naively so, there are still some people out there who think just that! amazing really! i find these people just pathetically needy,clingy and of absolutely NO conscience for the mental well-being of others!
i'm personally speaking of two close friends of mine and their die-sastrous relationship. they are BOTH males btw! heheh! i wonder how they have ever gotten themselves such psychotic women in their lives? i mean, out of the millions of sane souls... u had to choose those suicidal and mental-institute worthy ones who lack self-confidence and are way OTT possessive??!
description : the girlfriends constant( more like all-the-time)need to sms, call, whine and complain about everything and anything! they would cry cuz they werent told of a party their men wud be goin, the emails they exchanged were more intimate, the stuff their friends got is more interesting/expensive, or the mere reason of, " u dun trust me cuz u dun tell me everything tht is goin on in ur life and in ur mind! "
seriously?! how do u men put up wit that?! hahahaha~ i sympathise..really! hahahaha i'm a die-hard romantic... show up at my door,give me a buncha roses ,take me to a candlelit dinner in ur car and heck! i'm all urs hunny! but to tell you wad i'm gonna do everyday, then spill everything out just for ur curiosity and insecurity's sake?! then ask for my passwords and check my mobile/camera/email/facebook... just to prove myself? sorry la... thats not proving my loyalty but just robbing me of my privacy to sate your insecurities of ur ever-suspicious heart. just from there, i see this extremely selfish and cowardly person.
BUT~ i do hv my principles and beliefs in the love lane. i'd give my heart and soul into the relationship. trust my guy indefinitely. oh! no sex before marriage... gosh.. the fella has gotta be as crazy and funloving as me! gotta understand that i've got my own social life too! dun suffocate me with all the sms and calls and dun ever touch my family!
sure, its nice to have sumone to love and loved in return but... dun mollycoodle the fella to death! i'd die if my boyfren wud sms me abt my whereabouts,go into depression cuz they forgot their daily MSN chat/appointment , or have mini tantrums.
my personal opinion is, all u need now in life is a religion, family and friends. cuz love will eventually come later in life. why not enjoy life wit friends? minus all the headache and emotional turmoil. besides, wad more can a boyfren do? hehehe~
cant help but keep advising my frens to believe that... maybe thts cuz i'm a lil too independant and wild-at-heart? i hate being stifled by age-old traditions and taboos. yawn. i can be absolutely naughty wild crazy bitchy but i still hold on to the golden rule: no smoke,drugs nor sex. i do drink(never gotten drunk) but its only for the social part, the clubbing part is just for the love of getting all dressed up and dancing with friends, the dangerous driving? hehehe... just for the speeding fun of it. i love cars,the way different cars perform and recently, i just got over my love for drifting... shoot me! hahah~ price of tyres and fuel is "no play-play"! now that i am paying for my own college education and all. sigh. dun u just love growing up? thank goodness daddy is more than happy to let me use any of the cars! hehe!
i havent found the right guy to fit in my uber busy life just yet. besides, men at this age arent reli matured huh? heheh! give them a few more years and they'll be considerable potential candidates. and my standards arent unrealistically high, plus! i'm not the typical desperate-clingy-fragile gurls. life was meant to be a fun learning process. i hv no time fer this kinda slow-down and tame-me shyt. xp
can u handle me?
